happy "Foxy" day!

Happy Valentine, Lovers!!! That includes aus all, of course.

Self-love should have its own word. That's why I love the word "foxy" so much. A fox is not only attractive, smart, and confident. Years ago, when my friends started calling me Foxy Moxie, I loved it so much (They also called me Karmageddon... LOL). I mean, who wouldn't want to be considered gorgeous and smart? Aren't you Foxy too?

If I remember correctly, there are five types of love: agape, familia (family), philia (brotherly), and eros (romantic). But when I asked ChatGPT what's the word for self-love;

..too much love for yourself is considered narcissism. Yet we could never love our brother, wife, or loved ones enough.

Key terms for positive self-love includeself-compassion, self-esteem, self-worth, self-acceptance, and self-care, representing healthy regard for oneself. It can also lean toward negative traits like vanity, narcissism, and egoism, or be termed amour propre.

I felt so disheartened at the thought that too much love for yourself is considered narcissism. Yet we could never love our brother, wife, or loved ones enough. The love we have for ourselves is the most important love to exist. Without it, we couldn't love anything or anyone else properly. In the words of Uncle RuPaul, "If you can't love yourself, how the hell are you gonna love anyone else? Can I get an amen up in here???"

Whatever love you are celebrating today, I wish you the loveliest time. Enjoy it. You deserve it. Happy Valentine’s. And stay foxy!